Everyone deserves safe, meaningful connection.
Find Love Safely helps adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities build friendship, confidence, and love — with thoughtful matchmaking and supportive guidance.
Whether you’re a member looking for connection or a caregiver hoping to support someone you love, you’re in the right place.
What We Do
Matchmaking is at the heart of everything we do.
Find Love Safely is not a dating app. We’re a relationship-focused service built specifically for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities.
We offer:
- Personalized matchmaking
- Live virtual coaching and skill-building
- Optional one-on-one support
- Inclusive, welcoming social events
- A calm, safety-first approach that respects independence
Our goal is simple: to help adults with IDD experience connection without pressure, confusion, or unnecessary risk.
Who We Serve
Find Love Safely was built for adults with intellectual and/or developmental disabilities and the people who support them.
Adults with IDD
who want friendship, dating, or companionship
Caregivers, parents, and support staff
who want a thoughtful, safe process
"I would like to thank you for what you've done for this community! So many of us are looking for love and meaningful connections, and until now there hasn't really been much, if anything, to facilitate that."
How It Works
A thoughtful process, not a swipe.
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Step 1: Join Find Love Safely
Choose the program that fits your goals and support needs. -
Step 2: Get to Know You
We learn about interests, values, communication style, and readiness for connection. This is also where we'll determine the appropriate level of caregiver involvement. -
Step 3: Personalized Matchmaking
Our matchmakers create your profile and let you know when we have found a potential match for you. -
Step 4: Ongoing Support
Workshops, coaching, and check-ins help build confidence and skills along the way.
Programs Overview
Support that grows with you.
All Find Love Safely programs include personalized matchmaking and free admission to local events, when available. Families can choose the level of guidance that feels right.
Core Program
- Matchmaking-focused support
- Annual membership
- Best for members who want a slower, lighter-touch approach
Essentials Program
(Most Popular)
- Matchmaking + live virtual workshops
- Caregiver summaries included
- Ongoing skill-building support
Concierge Program
- Everything in Essentials
- Monthly 1:1 coaching
- Most personalized support
New City Thank-You
Joining Find Love Safely in a new city?
As a thank-you for helping us build a strong, connected community, new members in newly launched cities receive complimentary access to our live virtual workshops for their first three months.
This early access helps members build skills, confidence, and community right from the start.
Safety, dignity, and care matter.
Families choose Find Love Safely because we are:
- Intentional — no algorithms, no swiping, no pressure
- Experienced — built by families who understand the risks and the hopes
- Supportive — coaching and education alongside matchmaking
- Respectful — members are treated as adults with agency
- Transparent — caregivers can stay informed without taking over
A Personal Note
Find Love Safely was created by a parent who understands both the desire for independence and the need for safety.
What began as one family’s question — “How can my child date safely?” — has grown into a service supporting adults and families across the country.
We’re honored to walk alongside you.
Ready to take the next step?
Whether you’re looking for connection, guidance, or a safe place to begin, we’re here.