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Find Love Safely

Personalized matchmaking services for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities

Two adults with Down Syndrome who are dating and happy
Woman with intellectual disabilities using a mobile phone

You Want to Find Love, Just Like Everyone Else

But it's especially hard when you have an intellectual or developmental disability.

  • Dating apps can be unsafe, and online dating is hard.
  • It's hard to know how and where to meet people to date.
  • When you meet someone you'd like to date, asking them out can feel scary.

The Benefits of a Matchmaking Service

No scary apps or online dating

We personally meet with everyone (and their guardian) so we guarantee your match is a real person, and they are who they say they are.

You choose who you want to meet

We email your matches to your guardians, but ultimately it's your (and your guardian's) decision who you choose to meet.

Guardians are involved every step of the way

Designed to keep you safe, your guardian walks alongside you throughout the entire process.

"As guardian, I'm glad that I'm involved in the process and able to meet the guardian of the person my son has interest in."

Pam S.
Guardian of Find Love Safely member

How It Works

  • Step 1: Fill Out the Intake Form
    Fill out the Intake Form. You can find the form on your city's page under the "Locations" tab at the top.
    IMPORTANT: Members must be 18 or older and have their legal guardian's full support.
  • Step 2: Complete the Agreement
    Guardians will receive an email asking them to fill out the Intellectual Disabilities Matchmaking Services Agreement. Guardians: Please read the Agreement in advance by clicking on "Service Agreement" in the footer of the website.
  • Step 3: Schedule Virtual Call
    After the Service Agreement has been signed and paid, guardians receive an email to schedule a virtual call with the prospective Find Love Safely member, their guardian, and your Find Love Safely representative. After this call, the prospective member is now an official Find Love Safely member!!
  • Step 4: Receive Matches!
    When we find someone who might be a good match for the member, we will email both guardians to let them know we've found a match, and they take it from there!
A dating couple who both have intellectual disabilities

A Note to Guardians

We know this is scary. And because this is the first and only matchmaking service dedicated specifically to our beautiful (adult) children with intellectual and developmental disabilities, you probably have lots of questions. We would too!

Send us a message with any questions you have, and we'll get back to you as soon as we can.