Dating can be an exciting journey, but for adults with intellectual disabilities, it comes with unique challenges. For anyone, knowing what to say, how to act, and when to take certain steps can feel overwhelming. For you, as the guardian of an adult with intellectual disabilities, it is important to know that you’re not alone! These questions are ones I have also wrestled with during my child’s dating journey, and my hope is that these blogs will provide support and insight, and let you know that it’s okay to ask for guidance as your loved one explores these relationships.
If you’re wondering about helping your loved one with situations like:
You’re in the right place. This blog introduces some key tips and resources for the guardians of adults with intellectual disabilities as they navigate the dating world.
It’s Okay for Your Loved One to Have Questions
One of the biggest steps in dating is understanding that you don’t have to have all the answers right away. Whether they are wondering about when to hold hands or figuring out how to talk about their disability, these are things you can help them learn with time and practice.
To help answer these questions and more, I’ve created a video series designed to guide your loved one through the dating process step by step. The videos will cover practical advice, like how to ask for a second date, how to handle rejection, and ways to share information about yourself in a way that feels comfortable and safe.
You Got This!
When you’re navigating dating and new relationships for a loved one, remember that relationships take time, effort, and patience. Asking questions, seeking support, and learning as you go are all part of the process.
Don’t forget to subscribe to my video series for more advice, and feel free to send me your questions—I’ll address them in future videos!
Let’s make the journey to love safe, fun, and meaningful.