Guided matchmaking for meaningful relationships.
Human-led introductions designed specifically for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Our process focuses on compatibility, communication styles, relationship goals, and support needs — not swiping, messaging strangers, or navigating dating apps alone.
A different kind of matchmaking.
Many dating services focus on profiles, swipes, and algorithms. We focus on people. Every member has a unique story, communication style, support system, and relationship goals.
Our team takes time to understand those factors before making thoughtful, intentional introductions.
Why relationship skills matter first.
The strongest relationships are built on communication, confidence, emotional awareness, boundaries, and self-advocacy. That's why many members participate in Virtual Workshops while pursuing matchmaking.
Relationship education and matchmaking work best together.
How matchmaking works.
Intake form
Tell us about yourself — including what kind of relationship you're looking for.
Meet your matchmaker
Share your interests, goals, communications style, and support preferences on a Zoom call.
Careful review
Our team carefully reviews potential matches.
Profile delivered
When a promising match arrives, we send you their profile with contact info.
You decide
Choose whether you want to get to know that person.
Local matchmaking, growing nationwide.
Established communities
- ●Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN
- ●San Francisco Bay Area, CA
- ●Sacramento, CA
Emerging communities
- ●Los Angeles
- ●San Diego
- ●Chicago
- ●Denver
- ●Boston
Founding members in these Emerging Communities receive three months of complimentary Virtual Workshops while local matchmaking pools grow.
Don't see your city?
Virtual Workshops and Compass™ app are available nationwide. If there's enough interest in your area, your city could become the next Find Love Safely matchmaking community.
From our events and our members.
Choose the level of support that's right for you.
Core
Matchmaking with quarterly check-ins.
- Matchmaking
- Quarterly check-ins
- Free admission to local FLS events when available
- Virtual Workshops
- Compass app
- Caregiver summary emails
- Monthly 1:1 coaching session
- Highest level of support
Essentials
Matchmaking plus full Virtual Workshops and Compass app.
- Matchmaking
- Quarterly check-ins
- Free admission to local FLS events when available
- Virtual Workshops
- Compass app
- Caregiver summary emails
- Monthly 1:1 coaching session
- Highest level of support
Concierge
Highest level of support, with 1:1 coaching.
- Matchmaking
- Quarterly check-ins
- Free admission to local FLS events when available
- Virtual Workshops
- Compass app
- Caregiver summary emails
- Monthly 1:1 coaching session
- Highest level of support
3-month minimum on monthly plans.
Real relationships. Real people.
"We never thought this kind of relationship was possible for our daughter. Now we're planning a wedding."
"The matchmaker really listened. When she introduced us, it just made sense."
"We were a long-shot match on paper. The team saw something we couldn't see."
Ready to explore matchmaking?
Whether you're looking for friendship, dating, or a long-term relationship, our team is here to help you decide whether matchmaking is the right fit.